The month of love is here and it’s certainly that time of the year to get all booed up! Are you riding a Bolt to meet your Val’s date? Well, we are not only going to make sure you arrive looking cupid-arrow sharp, but we are also giving you 100 conversation starter ideas to make your date special.

But before we get to the topics to talk about, here are some good convo reminders:

• Listen and follow up. Back and forth, back and forth, people. A conversation goes two ways.
• It’s better to keep away from anything related to religion and politics, even when talking about love.
• If it feels weird, keep it to yourself. You’re not interrogating a perp, you’re trying to have a nice conversation. If it doesn’t work, it doesn’t work – don’t push it, especially if you feel the other person isn’t in the mood to chat.

101 topics to talk about: Valentine’s edition

1. What is love?
2. What is true love?
3. If you had only five words left before losing your voice, what would you say to your loved ones?
4. Do you believe in destiny?
5. What is the best relationship advice you’ve received?
6. What makes people fall out of love?
7. Do you think people can change when they love someone?
8. Do you think people should change for love?
9. What makes people fall in love?
10. Which is more important – inner or outer beauty?
11. What do people love more – money or feeling appreciated?
12. What’s the best quote about love?
13. Have you ever used a love calculator?
14. What’s the best poem about love?
15. Do you like the song “Savage love”?
16. Is being romantic overrated?
17. Why do people think single people are unhappy with their relationship status?
18. Is unconditional love real?
19. Is there such a thing as a selfless good deed?
20. Are platonic relationships a bad thing?
21. Can long-distance relationships work?
22. Do you believe in Zodiac sign compatibility?
23. Have you ever written a love letter?
24. Have you ever received a love letter?
25. Is marriage overrated?
26. Do you think the five languages of love are real or it’s just another marketing trick?
27. What’s the best romantic novel you’ve read?
28. Can a break-up be a good thing?
29. Do you know how to say “I love you” in many languages?
30. What has been your worst date so far?
31. Do you believe in birthday compatibility when it comes to relationships?
32. Would you move countries for love?
33. Have you ever used any dating apps?
34. Can cultural differences ruin a relationship?
35. Can you regain lost trust?
36. What’s Cupid’s real name? (It’s Eros, by the way)
37. Do you believe that the different colours of roses mean something?
38. What’s the stupidest belief about love and relationships?
39. Do you believe opposites attract?
40. What’s the best love song?
41. What bands do you love?
42. What books do you love?
43. What movies do you love?
44. What series do you love?
45. What foods do you love?
46. Why is it so hard to self-love?
47. What does happiness mean to you?
48. What gives you energy?
49. What is the most important thing in life?
50. Are you living your dream life?
51. What inspires you?
52. What motivates you to get up and get going every morning?
53. Do you love dogs?
54. Do you love cats?
55. Do you love animals?
56. What brought you joy today?
57. What are you thankful for?
58. How to practice gratitude in everyday life?
59. What do you love doing?
60. What is the one piece of advice you would give to your future self?
61. What is the one piece of advice you would give to your past self?
62. What’s your biggest fear?
63. Do you love travelling?
64. What’s your dream destination?
65. What makes you smile?
66. What is your number one goal for this week?
67. How would you describe your perfect day?
68. What’s your favourite memory?
69. What’s your favourite personality trait?
70. What’s the best compliment you’ve received?
71. What’s the best compliment you’ve given?
72. What makes a good friend?
73. What’s your self-care routine?
74. If you could send one message to the whole world, what would it be?
75. What does your ideal morning look like?
76. How can we all take better care of ourselves?
77. Where would you live in your ideal life?
78. Who are you most inspired by?
79. If you had all the time in the world, where would you go?
80. Have you ever written yourself a thank you note?
81. What’s your favourite personality trait in people?
82. How would you like to be remembered?
83. What are you the proudest of in your life?
84. What’s an embarrassing moment you can now look back on and laugh about?
85. Who is your role model?
86. Do you love your work?
87. When and where do you feel the most peaceful?
88. Do you have any hobbies that make you happy?
89. Do you love dancing?
90. Do you love singing?
91. What’s your favourite treat-yo-self food?
92. Is love a need or a gift?
93. What’s your favourite joke?
94. If you had to rename yourself, what name would you pick?
95. What was the last show you binge-watched?
96. Would you rather live in the city or in the countryside?
97. Do you love nature?
98. Who is your favourite fictional character?
99. If you had a time machine, would you visit your future or past loved ones?
100. Do you love driving?  

If the answer to the last question is a definite yes, you might want to follow up with a “Have you ever considered becoming a Bolt driver?” After all, it is one of the most flexible ways to make some (extra) money for yourself and your loved ones. 

Happy Valentine’s!